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1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Ray-N-Pa [PA]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 11:37 AM Message:
A record 1 in 3 Gen Z and young millennials were still living with their parents in 2025—more than during the pandemic—despite most having a job
Story by Emma Burleigh • 3 min read
Young Americans were told that good grades would unlock a six-figure salary, starter apartment, and independence from their parents. But now, entry-level professionals are clinging to their childhood bedrooms and pillaging their family fridges as more are extending their stay than ever before.
A record 25.2 million U.S. adults under the age of 35 lived with their parents in 2025—representing about one in three young adults—according to a recent report from Reatlor.com.
That’s even higher than the pandemic-era surge, when many budding professionals returned home to ride out the pandemic with their loved ones.
However, it doesn’t mean that Gen Zers and young millennials are jobless and mooching off their family resources. In fact, around 70% of 25 to 34-year-olds who still live at home with their parents are actually employed, according to the report.
Instead of kicking back, most workers are delaying their flight from the nest thanks to an affordability crisis pinching the wallets of everyday Americans. And as the lowest professionals on the corporate totem pole, their rock-bottom salaries, job instability, and lack of savings may be keeping them home.
“The growth [of young generations living at home] is coming from working adults, not people waiting to find jobs,” Hannah Jones, senior economist at Realtor.com and author of the report, said in the study. “Something about their income level, debt load, or the cost of housing in their market is keeping them home despite steady employment.”
America’s affordability crisis is crushing the independence of young workers
Young professionals are up against a stormy transition into adult life: entry-level jobs are disappearing, wage bumps are stagnating, and cost-of-living is soaring. Now, it’s forced Gen Z into a professional reality of “stress and pressure and chaos” that their baby boomer parents wouldn’t even comprehend, according to podcaster Mel Robbins. And the financial burden is extending beyond the young workers clamoring for independence.
Around 64% of parents with Gen Z children aged 18 to 28 said that their adult kids still rely on them for money, housing, or other financial support, according to a 2026 survey from Wells Fargo. And their continued support has led to a money pinch for many, as 56% reported that assisting their grown-up offspring is straining their own finances. However, they’re actually helping cover essential living expenses rather than picking up the tab on extravagant getaways.
“[Adult Gen Z] kids who are receiving the financial support are really in this perfect storm,” Emily Irwin, head of private wealth planning at Wells Fargo, told Fortune earlier this year. “They’re feeling uncertain about their career, their profession, and the stability of receiving a paycheck.”
One of the financial biggest hurdles keeping young workers at home is the sky-high cost of housing.
In 2025, the median American home price was $430,000, up 34.4% from 2019, according to the Realtor.com report. Meanwhile, average monthly rent shot up by 17.9% to $1,673. And a housing shortage of roughly 4 million residents is only exacerbating the issue. Young generations are now crossing a “threshold at which they begin to give up on [buying a home] entirely,” university researchers Seung Hyeong Lee and Younggeun Yoo found.
Other daily expenses are sky-rocketing, too. Cash-strapped young workers watched the price of a pound of ground beef hit a record $6.90 per pound last month, up 19% from a year ago. Orange juice prices skyrocketed 21% between January 2025 and February this year, and sandwich bread got 4.3% more expensive. Plus, they have less income to work with in footing the bill. Despite early-career being the prime time to grow earnings, income growth for 25 to 29-year-olds slowed to 5.2% in late 2025, one of the lowest levels since 2011 when JPMorganChase Institute began collecting data.
Gen Z and young millennials may be leveraging the safety net of their families, but most aren’t simply coasting off the bank of mom and dad.
Around 72% of young adults who live with their parents say they contribute financially to the household in some sort of way, according to the 2024 data from Pew. About 46% contribute toward rent or the mortgage, while 65% put in money towards the family groceries, utilities, or other household expenses.
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1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Ken [NY]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 12:40 PM Message:
unny, the young kids i know who are winners are buying houses, who does that leave? --98.98.xx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Robert J [CA]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 1:15 PM Message:
I rented a 5 bedroom, three bathroom house, over 2000 square feet to three generations of tenants--that became four.
In the end, the grandson, an actor, took over paying the rent for everyone. --47.156.xxx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Jason [VA]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 1:16 PM Message:
And those that have anything negative to say about it are out of touch with reality. I bought my first house for under $80k and that same house would now sell for $250-$300k. Wages haven’t come close to catching up, which is why the avg homeowner is now buying their first house in their late forties as opposed to early 20s. But it’s easy to blame fringe spending from the arm chair. --143.105.x.x |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by zero [IN]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 5:16 PM Message:
My daughter is 31 and on her second house.
Son is close enough to 29 and has a place of his own (even tho he spent nearly retail for it).
They are both teachers, not rolling in the dough, but they worked the situations and ended up with places they like. Sure they had some help from us, but it was on them.
To be honest I think the wife would not be upset if one or both of them came back to the nest for a while. But one is 35 minutes away by interstate and the other is less than a quarter mile from us.
When they lived at home we did not charge rent, utilities or food expenses. Wife made food and they were (still are) welcome to share.
Now if they moved back with spouses that would change things up a lot. Plus all the animals they both have now. --47.227.xx.xxx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by JS [CA]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 5:25 PM Message:
A started in my area runs around 1 million. How many young people can afford that? Even if you go to an area that’s not as nice or safe with poor schools it will run 600+ but I wouldn’t want my kids there. It wasn’t ever inexpensive but now only the kids with great jobs can buy a house in their 20s. --162.204.xxx.xxx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Mapleaf18 [NY]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 5:28 PM Message:
These same "youngsters" are Doordashing into financial ruin. Life was better with no safety hammocks. --64.246.xxx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by RB [TN]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 6:12 PM Message:
Lack of maturity and proper priorities. --204.10.xxx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by MikeA [TX]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 6:24 PM Message:
And yet the published FRED stats on real disposable personal income continues to rise year over year (with some blips around the Pandemic). The premise that wages haven't kept up is somehow lost on the reality of published stats on the subject.
Some alternative explanations for why more are living with parents. First off, the cultural norm is changing with the changes in the ethnic makeup of the US. It is more normal for extended families to live together in many cultures.
Personal savings rate is also going down. Since disposable income stats excludes the "needed to live" items, it has to be related to increased consumption of non-essentials. Doordash, starbucks, and the latest iphone are a few examples. Or it could be that people are paying more interest on the ever-increasing credit card debt. When you live beyond your means it's hard to get ahead.
I don't subscribe to this Chicken Little premise that it is purely because of an affordability crisis. The stat's don't support that. --99.64.xx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Jason [VA]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 7:09 PM Message:
I don't agree with that assessment, “While wages have risen, they have not kept pace with:
* Home price appreciation
* Higher mortgage rates
* Rising property taxes and insurance in many areas
As a result, housing affordability is near its weakest level in decades, even though unemployment has remained relatively low.”
I can imagine kids are wasting their money on door dash and whatever other garbage they can because the American dream isn’t obtainable to them. --143.105.x.x |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 8:43 PM Message:
"A started in my area runs around 1 million. How many young people can afford that? "
How many other people can afford that?
What is the average wage in CA? --73.19.xxx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by JS [CA]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 9:00 PM Message:
The average wage is 80K. California is a big place and that’s still plenty away from the metro areas.
I’m just being sympathetic to the many who can’t afford it. I’m not saying this is true for my kids. I will acknowledge that they are privileged by most standards. One of the kids is looking for a starter home in his 20s right now and it will exceed 1 million. --162.204.xxx.xxx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Ken [NY]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 9:01 PM Message:
6x6 noone is promised they can live where they want to, nothing stopping anyone from moving. who cares how many can afford it, when noone can afford it prices will come down but right now apparantly they can afford it in your area. The winners will move or figure something out,the losers will make excuses and want laws passed etc --98.98.xx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 9:03 PM Message:
Thank you, JS. That would be a big monthly payment. --73.19.xxx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by JS [CA]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 9:07 PM Message:
How many other people can afford that?
There are a lot of college educated dual income couples who both make over 100k. They save for longer and put down large deposits to keep the monthly reasonable.
The median price in the area is 1.275 in the state iis around 900k. --162.204.xxx.xxx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: Jul 6, 2026 9:09 PM Message:
Ken, I see your point. That said, how many people really want to move from where they were born and grew up? I should look up the stats on that. --73.19.xxx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Oregonwoodsmoke [ID]) Posted on: Jul 7, 2026 11:57 AM Message:
I don't think the cost of housing has anything to do with it. I think the kids were raised to think that someone else would pay their way and they are enjoying free rent and free meals which leaves them with their whole paycheck to play with.
If you check, I think you will find that the ones who stay at home have permissive parents who have always let them do whatever they wanted to do and have always pampered them. They have no motivation to escape from parental control. --76.178.xxx.xxx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by ThinkTank [VA]) Posted on: Jul 7, 2026 11:59 AM Message:
Here's something no one ever talks about. Yes, wages are at an all-time low compared to housing prices. BUT it's easier than ever to start a profitable business. Today, you can become a millionaire by typing on a keyboard. If you don't think that's true, you are out of the loop. --108.39.xx.xxx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Jason [VA]) Posted on: Jul 7, 2026 3:34 PM Message:
Thinktank, please tell us how you accomplished that. --143.105.x.x |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by RB [TN]) Posted on: Jul 7, 2026 4:35 PM Message:
6'er,
Most people with the courage to leave their hometowns
make better lives for themselves.
While the opposite is also true. --204.10.xxx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: Jul 7, 2026 8:37 PM Message:
Thanks, RB. --73.19.xxx.xx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Ray-N-Pa [PA]) Posted on: Jul 8, 2026 7:25 AM Message:
Some questions that I ponder about......
Does mom and dad own or rent when the kids are living with them? Should I be picking up duplexes that are better configured for multi-generational living?
Lately I have been on a quality kick as I want quality tenants to stay at quality homes......so I have seeking out mostly ranch style houses.
Maybe, I should be chasing the don't wanta upstairs/downstair duplexes instead of what us older folks are chasing. --50.96.xx.xxx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Ray-N-Pa [PA]) Posted on: Jul 8, 2026 7:28 AM Message:
Another aspect of this might be worth asking each other. How many of you fled the nest vs how many of us were tossed out of the nest?
I know that is how I learned to swim - a loving family member trying to drown me. But as Mike said, maybe the culture has changed that much --50.96.xx.xxx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by WMH [NC]) Posted on: Jul 8, 2026 9:29 AM Message:
It wasn't a push or a shove. It was the 70's. You either went to college or you got a job and moved out to rentals. Houses came way later. --173.18.xx.xxx |
1 In 3 Live with Mom&Dad (by Robert,OntarioCanada [ON]) Posted on: Jul 9, 2026 9:19 AM Message:
Anytime governments try to change things that oppose market forces it does not work. Without a industrial policy to bring manufacturing back to the Us with tariffs did not work where the trade deficit went up not down along with cost of everything went up. Tariffs are a tax on the country that uses tariffs where tariffs brought in the Great Depression. Now with inflation along with no income growth the economy is getting worse where a recession which could get worse to a depression. Now Canada has a large aluminium smelting plants which use hydro electric power which is low cost energy along steel plants are going to electric blast furnaces as well. Where with tariffs 50 per cent of aluminium is going to the Eu along with lumber as well including other countries with free trade agreements. In order to manufacture to be competitive green low cost energy is required as must use automation to bring the down the cost along with improve quality. Like all countries some living parents have no ambition as free trade schools for those who want to earn $35 to $45 per hour with good job security. Some are living in basement smoking marijuana along with playing video games. Skilled trades can not be replaced by AI. Higher energy costs are also going cause inflation as groceries to supermarket. As pipeline is completed here more crude is going to Asia where the market price for crude oil has to paid where no discount for crude oil. War with Iran has caused major upset where China is the second largest buyer of crude oil. More pipelines are going to built here where it is going to the coasts not from North to South. --216.110.xxx.xxx |
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