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ESA & Anxiety (by Terry B. Grigg [NY]) May 27, 2026 1:27 AM
       ESA & Anxiety (by Bonanza [NC]) May 27, 2026 6:19 AM
       ESA & Anxiety (by NE [PA]) May 27, 2026 6:22 AM
       ESA & Anxiety (by Ray-N-Pa [PA]) May 27, 2026 7:29 AM
       ESA & Anxiety (by Deanna [TX]) May 27, 2026 9:27 AM
       ESA & Anxiety (by RB [TN]) May 27, 2026 10:05 AM
       ESA & Anxiety (by Jason [VA]) May 27, 2026 12:10 PM
       ESA & Anxiety (by WMH [NC]) May 27, 2026 12:13 PM
       ESA & Anxiety (by 6x6 [TN]) May 27, 2026 8:34 PM
       ESA & Anxiety (by Oregonwoodsmoke [ID]) May 28, 2026 12:56 PM

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ESA & Anxiety (by Terry B. Grigg [NY]) Posted on: May 27, 2026 1:27 AM
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Over the past few months, stress and anxiety have been affecting my sleep, focus, and overall mood more than usual. I have been reading about Emotional Support Animals and how they may help people feel calmer and more emotionally stable during difficult times.

While researching online, I found My ESA Therapist and started wondering how many people here have actually gone through the ESA process. Did having an emotional support animal make a noticeable difference in your mental health or daily routine? I am also curious about how smooth and professional the online evaluation experience was for you.

Would love to hear real experiences, advice, or things people wish they knew before starting the process. --152.56.xx.xxx




ESA & Anxiety (by Bonanza [NC]) Posted on: May 27, 2026 6:19 AM
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Well this is a landlord site and most landlords are not medical professionals. Finding advice online, while convenient, does not usually take into account your unique medical circumstances.

If the question is, do most landlords find that people who claim to need an ESA and present online evidence of that need are sketchy, then the answer would be yes. The reason being that any pet would create the same result. There is nothing special about a ESA animal, thus for the most part you must be claiming an ESA status to avoid paying pet rent.

I have one legit ESA tenant who jumped through all the hoops to have an ESA including yearly medical letters from a local medical provider but she is the exception to what most landlords encounter.

For the price of your online medical evaluation you could adopt a dog or cat from the pound and see whether or not your mental health improves. In my limited experience with family members, only drugs have helped with depression and anxiety.

And lastly IP address 152.56.X.x is located in India not NY.

Not sure what you are fishing for Terry.

--65.188.xxx.xx




ESA & Anxiety (by NE [PA]) Posted on: May 27, 2026 6:22 AM
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Start hiking and suck it up bud. --24.152.xxx.xx




ESA & Anxiety (by Ray-N-Pa [PA]) Posted on: May 27, 2026 7:29 AM
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We have anxiety about so many folks who falsely claim to need ESAs. The good news about at least my state, misrepresenting oneself is now punishable. Insurance companies were able to push this through after paying so many claims about fake ESAs biting people

Perhaps I should rent to only ESAs and not people, so they stop getting bit.

It is my hope that whatever is bothering you, you get resolved. For us, we just assume you have a pet and charge everyone more rent, so no one has to lie. Pets love you unconditionally, something that your landlord probably doesn't. So what is the difference between an ESA and a pet? I suppose in one category the tenant likes picking up dog poop --173.188.xx.xx




ESA & Anxiety (by Deanna [TX]) Posted on: May 27, 2026 9:27 AM
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First thing-- if you have a family history of depression, definitely take meds to help your chemistry. It makes a huge difference.

Second thing-- when I was stressing/anxious about things that were beyond my control, trying to find some substitute was ultimately only a distraction that kept me from dealing with the real issue. Distractions can be pleasant, but they're not solutions. The real solutions come from inside-- my relationship with myself, my relationship with God, my relationship with my community, my relationship with my family. When I'm able to let go of the things that are beyond my control, and focus on excelling on the things that I can control, that's when I make my progress dealing with those insecurities/stresses/anxiety. --96.46.xxx.xxx




ESA & Anxiety (by RB [TN]) Posted on: May 27, 2026 10:05 AM
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Find a new hobby that doesn't involve

inconveniencing anyone. --204.10.xxx.xx




ESA & Anxiety (by Jason [VA]) Posted on: May 27, 2026 12:10 PM
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Anxiety? Lean on unhealthy habits like a real man --165.85.xxx.xxx




ESA & Anxiety (by WMH [NC]) Posted on: May 27, 2026 12:13 PM
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spam. --73.216.xxx.xxx




ESA & Anxiety (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: May 27, 2026 8:34 PM
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"Did having an emotional support animal make a noticeable difference in your mental health or daily routine?"

Not really. Of course, I just called mine a dog and not an ESA. Having the dog as a companion is nice at times and beats humans, however there are drawbacks. You have to feed them, water them, bathe them, clean up after them, take them for walks, take them to the vet, ect.... All the while, the dog would rather not have some smelly human controlling them and telling them how to act. They know how to be a dog and just want their freedom. Think about it, how well do you like being under human control and being told what to do. Most humans don't find it pleasant to be in prison, yet they imprison "their" animals. Thus, I have found it more comforting to let the animals be free and avoid all of the expense and hassle of trying to control what doesn't want to be controlled.

With all that said, I have found that the best solution is to pet, hug, and squeeze animals under someone else's control and at their (the "owners") financial expense. When I have had my feel, I can go home. No smell, no noise, no expense, no clean up. This works great for kids too.

You can pick up a psychology textbook or two. Psychiatry textbooks are great but lengthy. Reader beware though.

" There is nothing special about a ESA animal..."

Bummer. There goes my ESA donkey. I find them entertaining.

--73.19.xxx.xx




ESA & Anxiety (by Oregonwoodsmoke [ID]) Posted on: May 28, 2026 12:56 PM
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There is no such thing as an ESA therapist and absolutely no such thing as an "ESA process".

If a person has a mental health disability, they will be treated by a mental health professional and their mental health care professional gives them a diagnosis and prescribes an Emotional Support Animal.

If you are doing something online, you are most likely being scammed.

ESA is for persons with mental health disabilities or mental health conditions that affect their quality of life. If your quality of life is being affected, go to your doctor and get medical help. You Mental health care professional will decide whether or not you would benefit from an ESA and if so, he will prescribe one. You don't just go online and sign up. --76.178.xxx.xxx



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