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helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Jul 16, 2021 3:03 PM
       helper/friend died (by LTD [AZ]) Jul 16, 2021 3:31 PM
       helper/friend died (by Richard [MI]) Jul 16, 2021 3:38 PM
       helper/friend died (by Sisco [MO]) Jul 16, 2021 3:52 PM
       helper/friend died (by Sorta Blonde [CA]) Jul 16, 2021 4:31 PM
       helper/friend died (by Laura [MD]) Jul 16, 2021 4:34 PM
       helper/friend died (by Dodge [PA]) Jul 16, 2021 4:56 PM
       helper/friend died (by Deanna [TX]) Jul 16, 2021 5:18 PM
       helper/friend died (by Robert,OntarioCanada [ON]) Jul 16, 2021 5:22 PM
       helper/friend died (by Pat [VA]) Jul 16, 2021 5:26 PM
       helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Jul 16, 2021 5:39 PM
       helper/friend died (by Allym [NJ]) Jul 16, 2021 6:15 PM
       helper/friend died (by WMH [NC]) Jul 16, 2021 7:08 PM
       helper/friend died (by plenty [MO]) Jul 16, 2021 8:48 PM
       helper/friend died (by J [FL]) Jul 16, 2021 9:12 PM
       helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Jul 16, 2021 9:27 PM
       helper/friend died (by Dave [O]) Jul 16, 2021 9:55 PM
       helper/friend died (by Small potatoes [NY]) Jul 16, 2021 11:08 PM
       helper/friend died (by Still Learning [NH]) Jul 17, 2021 7:12 AM
       helper/friend died (by GKARL [PA]) Jul 17, 2021 8:27 AM
       helper/friend died (by Jim [OH]) Jul 17, 2021 10:17 AM
       helper/friend died (by Frank [NJ]) Jul 17, 2021 10:34 AM
       helper/friend died (by Ray-N-Pa [PA]) Jul 17, 2021 8:43 PM
       helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Jul 17, 2021 9:33 PM
       helper/friend died (by Nicole [PA]) Jul 19, 2021 12:16 PM
       helper/friend died (by Lynn [MA]) Jul 20, 2021 2:32 PM
       helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Jul 20, 2021 4:26 PM

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helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 3:03 PM
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I have a friend that was a plumber, electrician, HVAC tech and did appliance repairs that I would go help when he needed an extra hand on something. I didn't charge him anything as I would learn from him at the same time. I would hire him when there was something in these fields that I did not know how to do. A few years ago he stopped doing HVAC work. He had recently had a couple of health problems but I sure didn't expect this. I don't think he was that much older then I was. He was a really good guy and knew what he was doing. I guess I am getting older. Way too many deaths lately. I will miss him. --73.120.xx.xxx




helper/friend died (by LTD [AZ]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 3:31 PM
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6x6, sorry about your friend. Yeah, we really all need to enjoy the time we have, cause you never know. RIP.

--47.216.xx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Richard [MI]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 3:38 PM
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RIP for your friend. If he didn't have family, maybe take care of his affairs if you can. Attend his funeral, etc.

--24.180.xx.xx




helper/friend died (by Sisco [MO]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 3:52 PM
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I am sorry for your loss. --149.76.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Sorta Blonde [CA]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 4:31 PM
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So sorry you lost your good friend/buddy. It's so hard when someone we think will always be there is just gone. I remember my mom (who was old and wasn't in the best of health) saying, "All my friends are dying". She was right. It happens. So sad, but keep the good memories, they last forever. --72.207.xx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Laura [MD]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 4:34 PM
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So sorry for you loss. --108.56.xxx.xx




helper/friend died (by Dodge [PA]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 4:56 PM
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Sorry to hear of your friend's passing. Glad you have great memories of him. --174.198.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Deanna [TX]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 5:18 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. I'm happy he was able to make a difference during his time. --137.118.xx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Robert,OntarioCanada [ON]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 5:22 PM
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People with weak immune systems usually do not make it out the ICU when they get Covid 19. There are going to be many deaths in areas that have low vaccination rates. That is going to a great loss to those areas as many qualified people are not going to be there. The federal government has not decided to open the land border to the Us as concerned about low vaccination rates along with increases in Covid 19 cases. Russia has low vaccination rates where the Sputnik vaccine is the only vaccine available where people are reluctant to get vaccinated. Now hospitals are being overwhelmed where other procedures are being limited. Everyday here more and more are receiving first and second dose where there is positive news on case numbers taking a exponential drop in case numbers along with fewer and fewer deaths. Hopefully in a month phase four where most restrictions are going to lifted where only a face mask. --99.236.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Pat [VA]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 5:26 PM
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It is sad when a friend passes, especially when it is unexpected. I can't believe how many of my classmates have died. My husband is 4 years older than I am and not nearly as many of his classmates have died. Who can know?

The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away, blessed be the name of the Lord.

We might think we are in charge sometimes, but we're really not. --47.133.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 5:39 PM
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Thank you everyone for the kind words. This man would appreciate it.

He had recently had a valve put in his heart and it got infected. They put him on antibiotics and he started to fill better. Then he had a pacemaker put in and things went down hill apparently. He ended up in a coma and then rushed to Nashville for open heart surgery but they said that he would not survive the surgery and the family decided to take him off of life support as he would not want to live as a vegetable.

--73.120.xx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Allym [NJ]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 6:15 PM
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Sorry for your sadness. He will be there to help you if you ask him. My Dad passed in 1990 and eventually I had to take over the 20 units as mom and his friend couldn't make it work. So I knew very little about contruction, electricity, plumbing etc. I would go into one of the buildings and start looking at the problem and all of a sudden I would get a nice full color picture in my head as to what the solution was and how to do it. Dad was very handy. True, I got some books, but there was that sudden vision of the procedure. Also he saved my life once by telling me to get inside and a tree came down seconds later. Your friend can help you in an instant now. He is pain free. Go to his funeral if he has one. We go to our funerals so he will be there. Women like to see a lot of flowers. Men like a lot of cars going to the cemetery. He may come to see you as you fall asleep one night. He has three days to decide if he is going to step into the light and ascend or remain as a shadow person and reincarnate quickly. --108.24.xx.xx




helper/friend died (by WMH [NC]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 7:08 PM
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6x6, so sorry for the loss of your friend. --50.82.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by plenty [MO]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 8:48 PM
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(((((Hugs and Prayers))))) --172.56.xx.xxx




helper/friend died (by J [FL]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 9:12 PM
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I'm sorry 6X6. --72.188.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 9:27 PM
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Thank you again everyone.

What is that phrase? Two things are for sure in life, death and taxes. --73.120.xx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Dave [O]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 9:55 PM
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Sorry for your loss, 6x6. --173.216.xxx.xx




helper/friend died (by Small potatoes [NY]) Posted on: Jul 16, 2021 11:08 PM
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6x, sorry for your loss. I have a friend like that who taught me many things and I would hire him as much as I could. He's still here but in poor health and struggles to get through a day. He had to move away so family could take care of him, but every time I have a question he is a text away.

I hope you learned a lot. And he will be with you as you go around and fix things, take comfort in that.

--24.194.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Still Learning [NH]) Posted on: Jul 17, 2021 7:12 AM
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Sorry to hear about that. If you know the family, ask for one of his tools to remember him by. I use my dadís two step ladder in the apartments and always think about him. --75.67.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by GKARL [PA]) Posted on: Jul 17, 2021 8:27 AM
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Sorry for your loss. I have a friend like that as well. --209.122.xx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Jim [OH]) Posted on: Jul 17, 2021 10:17 AM
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I have had to say goodbye to one great friend two years ago. He was four years older than me and healthy as an ox.

He was in his kitchen making coffee in the morning and talking to his twenty something son. He dropped dead right there from an aneurism. He was so well known and respected in his community that the squad bagged him and performed CPR all the way to the hospital because no one on the squad wanted to make the call.

Six, the loss hurts I thought my first wife's passing was tough but losing such a great friend as Bruce still hurts. Time helps. Remember the fun stuff.

Be tough Six. Life demands it. Now you're in my thoughts and hopes of your adjusting and enduring for this loss. Jim.

--184.57.xxx.xx




helper/friend died (by Frank [NJ]) Posted on: Jul 17, 2021 10:34 AM
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6x6 my condolences as well.

The post above about getting a 'touchstone ' toll is a great memory to have.

We have 'Carl'. When my better half and I started our path many years ago, he was retired from the Bell System and was always a great source and cheerleader for us (unlike most family and friends)

He gave us his appliance dolly almost 40 years ago...and not long aftet. he passed suddenly and we say a prayer of thanks every time we see it or use it.

God bless the Carls of the world

--174.206.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Ray-N-Pa [PA]) Posted on: Jul 17, 2021 8:43 PM
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You are wise to allow this friend to impact your life in a positive manner. You can best honor him by returning the favor with someone else.

I am sorry to hear about the loss and the resulting emptiness --72.23.xxx.xx




helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: Jul 17, 2021 9:33 PM
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Thank you again everyone. I will be going to his funeral on Tuesday to offer my respects. --73.120.xx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Nicole [PA]) Posted on: Jul 19, 2021 12:16 PM
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I'm sorry you lost your friend. When someone passes, everyone immediately thinks about the spouse, parents, children. But, there are many others who were close to the person who also grieve but don't get the "attention".

One of my high school friends passed recently and when I sat thinking about her, after the initial sadness, so many memories I had forgotten came back. It made me happy to remember the great times we had, so many of which I hadn't thought about in many years. --72.70.xxx.xxx




helper/friend died (by Lynn [MA]) Posted on: Jul 20, 2021 2:32 PM
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Sorry for you loss.

As for tools see if he has a propress. I have one but If I didn't, that would make me think of someone every time I use it. --71.184.xxx.xx




helper/friend died (by 6x6 [TN]) Posted on: Jul 20, 2021 4:26 PM
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I just wanted to give an update. I was looking on FB to reaffirm the the place and time and found that the restaurant, that my friend enjoyed going to every weekend, is going to remain closed tomorrow in his honor.

Thank you everyone. --73.120.xx.xxx



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