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Unmarried applicants (by Roy [AL]) Jul 18, 2018 2:22 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Jim in O C [CA]) Jul 18, 2018 3:43 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Mickie [OH]) Jul 18, 2018 3:48 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Still Learning [NH]) Jul 18, 2018 3:51 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Sisco [MO]) Jul 18, 2018 3:52 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Sisco [MO]) Jul 18, 2018 3:59 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Roy [AL]) Jul 18, 2018 4:12 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Sisco [MO]) Jul 18, 2018 4:31 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Roy [AL]) Jul 18, 2018 4:53 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by WMH [NC]) Jul 18, 2018 5:00 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by LisaFL [FL]) Jul 18, 2018 5:11 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Sisco [MO]) Jul 18, 2018 5:16 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by LindaJ [NY]) Jul 18, 2018 5:32 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by bet [MA]) Jul 18, 2018 5:33 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by bet [MA]) Jul 18, 2018 5:33 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Vee [OH]) Jul 18, 2018 5:39 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by S i d [MO]) Jul 18, 2018 5:50 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by S i d [MO]) Jul 18, 2018 6:00 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by plenty [MO]) Jul 18, 2018 6:16 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Roy [AL]) Jul 18, 2018 6:18 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by AllyM [NJ]) Jul 18, 2018 7:27 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by WMH [NC]) Jul 18, 2018 7:48 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Robin [WI]) Jul 18, 2018 8:04 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by S i d [MO]) Jul 18, 2018 8:37 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Tom [FL]) Jul 18, 2018 9:39 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Robert J [CA]) Jul 18, 2018 9:43 AM
       Unmarried applicants (by Gene [OH]) Jul 18, 2018 4:55 PM
       Unmarried applicants (by BRAD 20,000 [IN]) Jul 18, 2018 9:47 PM


Unmarried applicants (by Roy [AL]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 2:22 AM
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Does it make any difference if your rental applicants are married or not? If they are not married (dating, engaged or just shacking up), does this issue have any bearing on whether you rent to them or not? If both applicants are working and it takes both incomes to make the 3X minimum, is this an issue?

Yesterday, I evicted 2 live-ins where one had lost a job and the other could pay only half the rent. How do I avoid this situation? --68.63.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by Jim in O C [CA]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 3:43 AM
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Married or not they are either great or not. I have 3 get married and one have their receiption in the back yard. I have had 3 separate also. --75.22.xx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by Mickie [OH]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 3:48 AM
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For me it depends on if they've been living together before they croosed paths with me and how long they've been together. If their applications show the same address in their histories and I can verify it then yeah they're acceptable. But I pass on experimenting with let's play house. How long they've been together needs to be considered. Newly minted lets play house I avoid. --174.233.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by Still Learning [NH]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 3:51 AM
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Married, not married, friends - they all are at risk of break up, job relocation, job loss, etc. I do my best to screen for good solid tenants and if something happens, re rent. In my area rents are too high for both to make 3x rent amt. when that happens, they are usually looking for a more luxury unit so I use combine income. --24.61.xxx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by Sisco [MO]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 3:52 AM
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“How do I avoid this situation?” By only dealing with easily garnishible tenants, deal only with people who never have failed to pay their bills.

If you aren’t getting applicants who meet this criteria, then you change your marketing and processes until you hit the mark. --72.172.xxx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by Sisco [MO]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 3:59 AM
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A couple in which one has an excellent credit history and the other has a bad credit history; within 6 months they will pay late, and not keep the terms of the lease, or they will break up. ELT is a vital tool for LL survival with this type. --72.172.xxx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by Roy [AL]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 4:12 AM
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Sisco,

Most of my Class C applicants are either on Disability Income or they have crappy service type jobs. In many cases, it takes 2 incomes to make the 3X min. Are you going to garnish someone only making $8.00/hour? --68.63.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by Sisco [MO]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 4:31 AM
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Don’t deal with most of them. Only deal with easily garnishible.

Again, if you aren’t getting applicants who meet this criteria, then change your marketing and processes until you hit the mark. --72.172.xxx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by Roy [AL]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 4:53 AM
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Sisco,

Change my marketing strategy? Believe me, I have tried. Years ago, I quit using yard signs since that only produced the worse looky-loo prospects. I quit using CL due to all of the scammers and low quality applicants. I now use Zillow and I am still getting low quality applicants. Occasionally, if I wait long enough, I will get a great Class B applicant who does not want to pay Class B rents and will settle for one of my nice Class C houses. However, these types only rent for 1 year before they are moving out and buying a house.

Again, I am swimming in a cesspool of low-medium quality applicants and I will eventually have to choose one of them. I can't allow my houses to stay vacant for an extended period of time like some LL's can afford to do. --68.63.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by WMH [NC]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 5:00 AM
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I've been the first landlord for many a new couple with great results. Many ended up marrying. And buying their own houses has been a trend lately - instead of moving to another rental, many of my tenants have ended up buying. That never used to happen!

It all depends on the individuals who are part of the couple. They BOTH have to be fine upstanding young people.

The good girl with the bad boy: Nope. Just turned down a couple where she was squeaky clean but he was not, and worse did not mention his issues with the law on the pre-view questions. So no, I'm not even going to entertain them as an option. --50.82.xxx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by LisaFL [FL]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 5:11 AM
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Roy,

Then it sounds like you are stuck because of the tenant class you cater to. Sounds like you already know the answer to your question. Class C tenants come with more issues, not really a way around that. That's why I don't choose those kinds of properties. But someone has to do it. It's just more maintenance.

Without a doubt, unmarried couples are higher risk. I will take them but they aren't preferred. I solved the problems they tend to bring by requiring one of the two of them alone must have at least 3 X the monthly rent amount in income to meet my 3.5X minimum to qualify. This way when they break up, the higher income one tends to stay behind. They usually end up with another girlfriend or boyfriend. But when both are lower income and can't qualify on their own there will always be a problem. --173.170.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by Sisco [MO]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 5:16 AM
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Roy, if you keep doing what you have been doing, you will keep getting what you have been getting.

Poor people will continue to do the things that make them poor: unstable relationships, unstable jobs, disability income, moving often, not paying bills. You get lots of inquiries from poor people because the they move 10 times more frequently than do people with middle class values. This gives the appearance of them being a much larger group than they really are.

Good tenants expect to deal with a housing provider who they can quickly determine online is not a scammer. Who offers a good online presentation of the house, the leasing process, the terms of the lease. Online payment.

If good tenants don’t see these things, you will never know they existed.

The bad tenants contact everyone offering housing rentals.

--72.172.xxx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by LindaJ [NY]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 5:32 AM
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It seems like it is your market, you neighborhood. You need to find how to make that work for you. Class C? How can you at least get the cream of this class, not the dregs. Marketing? Move in specials? etc.

Married or unmarried doesn't really make a difference in whether they will be together long term. Many people divorce, many stay together but unmarried, even room mates can stay together for years. What can you do to minimize your risk when it takes 2 to qualify for rent. Stable jobs? Having been together for a while? Extra deposit? Higher rent? --108.44.xx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by bet [MA]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 5:33 AM
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Here is an easy solution to your problem. Use Clear NOW to collect your rents. It doesn't matter the tenant class. For a lot of reasons even the lower class tenants do not fail on this system. It fixes the late payers. We tell them right at the phone interview stage we auto draft rent 1st of the month. The ones already planning on paying late, go away. They dont have checking accounts you say? Then tell them to get one! This system in an equalizer to getting the bad tenants to be more like the good ones. How do we know? We have not been to court for rent non payment in over 6 yrs with 35 units. It works, so you can take the marginal tenant and have better results. But to answer your question, all non married people are roommates and they all need to be screened separately. If there is a bad one it will bring the whole lot down. --74.104.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by bet [MA]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 5:33 AM
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Here is an easy solution to your problem. Use Clear NOW to collect your rents. It doesn't matter the tenant class. For a lot of reasons even the lower class tenants do not fail on this system. It fixes the late payers. We tell them right at the phone interview stage we auto draft rent 1st of the month. The ones already planning on paying late, go away. They dont have checking accounts you say? Then tell them to get one! This system in an equalizer to getting the bad tenants to be more like the good ones. How do we know? We have not been to court for rent non payment in over 6 yrs with 35 units. It works, so you can take the marginal tenant and have better results. But to answer your question, all non married people are roommates and they all need to be screened separately. If there is a bad one it will bring the whole lot down. --74.104.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by Vee [OH]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 5:39 AM
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I agree that is hard to determine when somebody will lose a job - income stream resulting in eviction, many good people just go bad even those with good kids, unfortunately it is a part of our risk, I suggest raising the price at least a 100bux to get the top floaters in your cesspool - at least they will reward you with a little more compensation as they -float along- before having a setback that pulls them underwater. --76.188.xxx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by S i d [MO]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 5:50 AM
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Roy, I know your market because I cater to them too! I'm probably more of a Class C- than straight Class C, but what I strive to do is find the few (and they are out there) who are good. There are good people in every income range, just as there are bad. Some wealthy folks will tear up houses and use stall tactics and lawyers to skip out, just like poor folks tear up a house and pull a midnight move-out then go under cover.

I agree with Sisco though. You HAVE to change. There is no alternative and no arguments. No change = same old, same old. Don't try to change the leopard's spots: even if you paint him with five coats of KILZ, he will still be a leopard.

So what changes?

1) Get a website. I know you're old skool, so hire someone who will do it for you if you don't want to learn how to use a drag and drop editor like Weeby (they host my site). For about the cost of ONE FILING FEE ($247 in your area, I believe?), you can find a college IT student or an online helper who will build you a basic website that has a "Showing" "Apply Now" and "Available Now" pages that you can easily maintain yourself going down the road. Make it a point to drive all inquiries to this site. Include a link in your Zillow ads at the top and the bottom. Splash the website on your lead photo too. Cost a few bucks if you don't know how to do PhotoShop, or there are free online tools that will water mark a photo for you.

2) No more ungarnisheable income. Make sure the combined household is AT LEAST 3x, and I'd go a step further and say at least one applicant must make no less than 2 x the income. Anything less than that is a simple NO GO.

3) If 1 and 2 are NO GO, it may be time to sell out of your current market and upgrade to Class B, if you can verify that the tenants at that level are more stable / have better income.

Do you pursue collections? I hear many LLs who say they can't collect from $8/hour tenants, but in reality is they think they can't collect so they don't even begin the process. I do collect from Class C tenants frequently (average 1 in 3 pay up, which is awesome for collections!). Just got a check yesterday from a gal who bailed out on me about 2 years ago. $130 out of $850 owed. Not much, but it's a start. --173.19.x.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by S i d [MO]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 6:00 AM
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Follow up:

1) Typo...that should be Weebly is my website design/host vendor (not Weeby). Very simple "drag and drop" tools means you do not have to know coding.

2) Answering your original question. Yes, I rent to unmarried all the time. In fact, right now I have....2 sets of married tenants...and a whole lot of single moms, single dudes w/girlfriends, etc.

Marriages are less frequent these days than in the past, and that does contribute to a lot of instability. When one person is sick or out of commission, the whole house of cards crashes down....unless they happen to be really blessed to have a steadfast "partner." I have seen some unmarried couples be more faithful to each other than married....but that's another topic for another day.

About 100 years ago when divorce was considered a social stigma, yes, that probably helped keep some households intact and stable who would otherwise have split up. Today there is much more emphasis on individual being able to come and go as they please: both in married and unmarried circumstances.

Bottom line: do not consider married vs. unmarried as a criteria. Two reasons: 1) it is not a practical concern as I've demonstrated above and 2) there's also the federal Fair Housing Act that reads....

"The FHA, to date, includes seven protected classes: race, color, religion, national origin, sex, disability, and familial status."

You CANNOT require two people to be married...that goes against familial status. --173.19.x.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by plenty [MO]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 6:16 AM
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Get your money goin in. Ask for more money up front. I ask, how long have you been a couple? Are you currently living together or will this be your first place? Screen. Qualify each separately and ask them to take the risk by putting up more money. Fees and or deposits. --66.148.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by Roy [AL]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 6:18 AM
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Thanks Sid for your answer. It is always a breath of fresh air to read your solutions to my problems,..LOL.

I think this post is more of a rant than anything else. I do have 14 great Class C tenants so I know I am doing something right here. It is just when I go looking for another great Class C tenant, I have to swim in the same stinking cesspool to find that next diamond in the rough. I have enough experience to know they (Class C diamonds) are out there and I just have to be patient. Years ago, I would only have to sift through 10 losers to locate my diamond but now the I have 20 plus loser prospects to deal with instead of 10. Even Section 8 applicants are cruising Zillow now.

Right now I am busier than a one arm paper hanger. I have one $5K rehab finishing up and I am buying another one next week. No rest for the weary here. --68.63.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by AllyM [NJ]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 7:27 AM
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I have a similar couple but their incomes are both about the same. Together they make way more than three times the rent. It's a matter of who you see in front of you. Both of my tenants were obviously well employed and employable and dedicated to their jobs. So I rented to them. You can have the same situation with a married couple so don't make marriage a criteria for renting or not. A single person could get injured and end up the same way. This business can be a gamble but we try to minimize the risk by looking at who is renting and looking behind the numbers. --73.178.xxx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by WMH [NC]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 7:48 AM
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Sid, sorry you are incorrect about the familial status things. It doesn't pertain to marriage at all, only to the presence of children under 18.

A landlord CAN require occupants be related in some way, by marriage or blood. They would be foolish to, because it would really drain the pool of qualifying tenants, but they can do it if they want to, legally. --50.82.xxx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by Robin [WI]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 8:04 AM
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One of my top criteria (other than income) is stability. Long time at the job, long time in their current property, long time in the relationship. I don't have to ask how long they've been together because I can compare current and previous addresses and piece that together pretty well. If they're moving in together for the first time, that's a big fat ZERO for relationship stability. They move to the bottom of the pile and would need pretty substantial income to cover an ELT fee. --204.210.xxx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by S i d [MO]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 8:37 AM
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WMH....thank you, I sit corrected. I had read somewhere online that it was illegal, but after double checking it appears that is not the case. --173.19.x.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by Tom [FL]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 9:39 AM
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Thanks WMH for clarification on familial status.

I think a lot of times Landlords error on the side of caution because a discrimination lawsuit would not be good thing to happen to ones rental biz.

Early on in my rental biz I had a prospect: mother with kids apply for one of my units. When I ran the credit check it was bad, charge offs, collections, delinquents. I did no need to call a landlord or make an in home visit. I refused the prospect based on the credit report outcome. THEN the mother of the prospect called and accused me of discrimination against the kids. I told her you need to get your facts straight and don't ever call me accusing me of something that I did not do. Then I hung up on her!!!

Prospects will say something that will be a red flag during the initial phone call or during the showing that will be a red flag. It's great how prospects like to talk and during their talking phase of the showing they just did a set elimination. It's funny!!!

With married couples or couples living together it all depends on their credit check and income factor. If each of the prospects don't qualify and one is below the 4x's rental income. And the stronger wage earner leaves then you have a problem with lower wage earner not able to keep the unit. Each prospect must pass the income and credit check.

Sometimes you get a married couple very strong income and pay on time then theres a life changing situation and they become non paying deadbeat tenants.

--99.56.xx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by Robert J [CA]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 9:43 AM
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32 years ago I had applicants, a "married" couple with 3 kids. The wife was a stay at home "mom" and didn't want to fill out an application, saying it was discriminating to "homemaker" because half of the husbands salary is counted as hers. So I didn't want to alienate these applicants, they were a "protected" class.

Stupid me, they weren't married and she had a bankruptcy and two evictions. I found that out in the second year of occupancy when she stopped paying the rent.

No matter how they label themselves, everyone 18 years and older has to fill out a application -- and run their credit. You will never know what you will find.. --47.156.xx.xx




Unmarried applicants (by Gene [OH]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 4:55 PM
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Roy, I don't rent to room mates. Too often one finds a girl/guy and then leaves putting the others in a situation where they usually can't pay the rent.

I require unmarried couples to have rented together elsewhere for at least one year. I found this out after renting to a few unmarried couples that were just getting together that most don't last very long.

I did just rent to a lady who could more than afford this Class A house and she wanted to bring in her new boyfriend. If they break up she will be staying because she wants the house for her daughter.

I'm finding that I am dealing with the bottom of the barrel also even in Class A and B rentals. We are back to the days before the last real estate crash. Good tenants were hard to find because most were buying houses. I am just trying to get the best tenants I can get and then during the next down turn, I hope to get some really good tenants that will stay with me for 5 years or more. --99.165.xx.xxx




Unmarried applicants (by BRAD 20,000 [IN]) Posted on: Jul 18, 2018 9:47 PM
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I want to see SID spray paint that leopard with Kilz!

It is true that Familial Status does not directly refer to marriage. It was written to protect PREGNANT woman who were “in a family way” and being turned away by LLs who did mot want children around or were afraid tje mother would not keep her job.

BUT

Interpretation by your local Fair Housing office is what matters. Lawyers have evolved this class into “no one can define a family” including what constitutes marriage. Mine clearly says we cannot discriminate between married or not.

Don’t poke the bear. Don’t be the test case.

BRAD --68.50.xxx.xxx





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